Thank you

Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Did you vote yes yourself?

I chose "I dunno," only because I had a similar situation come up and I am in the stages of crazy. I fell hard for my brothers friend Chris. We hang out with mutual friends a lot. I don't know him very well, but what I do know I surely like. He has an intelligence that makes me weak in the knees. I could listen to him speak for hours.One weekend I got mad vibe from him. He was holding on to me so tight and then caressing my hand. I figured "Hey, he likes me too. This is fabulous." The next weekend I come to find out he had already been interested in someone else before he had even met me. He didn't think it fair to lead me on, which is admirable. I whispered in his ear "Don't count me out." We have been hanging out ever since. It sucks that it can't be more, but I can't complain because I do have this amazing creature in my life in some capacity. I think you should do whatever your heart says and live with the consequence.