The info you have posted about Survivor Web sites may be the case for some, however I have ran a Survivor Site for about 4 years now, and have watched 100's of survivors come and go, some hanging on the edge of life, and if it had not been for the message board and them finding other survivors to talk to, that could relate and valadate what they are going through, I am not so sure they would havd made it through the really rough nights..So with that, please know that...there are GOOD Survivor message boards...we have to learn to trust at some point in our healing....Just my 2 cents worth