Hey Shawn,
If you decide you want to play around with this, I hope those help. While I found IBP to be highly customizable, I had a hard time finding good resource sites on that subject. In fact, I've considered that after I 'get it down' I may create a Lynda.com type tutorial on the process and sell it. The market for something like that seems large.
Also, thanks for the kind comments on Spider-Food, and the invitation to talk abou myself a bit. I hope you won't be sorry..
This may be overkill, but it seems like a good time for another introduction.
I was the Assistant Risk Manager for a Fortune 500 drug comapany for about 12 years. I checked out of that in 98, however, wanting to 'be my own boss,' and loving the Internet so I thought that was the way. Mentally I envisioned being a webmaster, working from home - in flip flops, and sporting my Ray Bans. It sounded cool.
I quickly found out, however, that doing that was much more complicated than I'd imagined. Being a one man shop meant not only having to learn what seemed like everything, it also meant that even though I honestly was hanging my hat out as a full time developer - I also had to compete with everyone who had a copy of Front Page. It seemed at the time that almost everybody wanted to be a webmaster, everybody had a copy of Front Page, and they also had the same flip flop dream.
I decided then to distance myself from the Front Page crowd and summized that the way to do that was with Dreamweaver. As a one man shop I respected the hand coders, but doing it that way just wasn't cost effective for me. It took too much time and time was money. Dreamweaver then seemed like the way to go.
Well, within a year Macromedia named me what they call an "Evangelist." (Now called Team Member)... And I thought that was really cool. But there was only one problem. That gained me some crediblity among the developer crowd, but it really didn't translate into more business. My peers (competition) knew what it meant, but potential clients didn't. As a result, I felt like I was still competing with everyone who owned a copy of Front Page (no offense to those who use it ). So, what I basically did was turn my peer group into my client group.
I eased up a lot on my role as an Evangelist. And focused instead on SEO. The result was the Spider-Food.net website. And since I was already well known in the Macromedia community, I had an almost instant following. Business boomed. All my peers (i.e. my competition) had now become my clients.
The site took off like a bottle rocket too. We were named Netscape's What's Cool Site of the Day, About.com's Best of the Web, and even now I believe SF is ranked among Yahoo's Most Popular for SEO. Which prolly brings me to the question about MS-SQL.
At the time (this is about 3 years ago) business was going so well I decided to buy my own box. But at the time I really didn't feel like getting in the "server wars" over the decision. I just didn't want to make 'the wrong' decision. And not being really a server guy or a database guy, going with Microsoft instead of open source seemed like the way to go to me. Mentally I think I envisioned it as a choice between IE and Netscape, which may have been wrong. But I didn't want to take any chances. I'd already been through one battle in the browser wars - trying my best to root for and support the other guy. But in the end giving up to the Goliath. Which as I said, may have been poor thinking on my part. Not really being well versed in this particular area - I really don't know.
Anyway, to make a long story short - (which is difficult for me

) I wound up in a quick marriage to a lady who suffered from Borderline Personality Disorder. I honestly didn't know that at the time we got married. But almost as soon as we did my life went completly haywire. I spent about a year trying to get her help - trying to get me help - trying to do something. But if you are familiar with this disorder perhaps you can understand just how futile that attempt was. Dealing with suicide threats, drug addiction, and much worse became the norm for me very quickly. We were divorced about one year after we were married.
Unfortuantly also, at the time we were divorced I could look back and see I'd really done nothing with Spider Food. I'd not updated it in a year. But the info was still accurate. The site was still making money. And as a result, following all that I just decided to go out and be something of a dharma bum for a while.. lol
And the thing is, Man. I had a blast..
I spent the last year just kinda digging on my spiritual studies. Getting happy. Smelling the roses. Hanging out with Garchen Ripoche. Taking my bodhisattva vows. Traveling. Reading. Loving. Studying physics. And basically, just having the time of my life.
I even had what I believe Maslow would refer to as a peek experience, although I've not studied his description of that. But alas, now it's time for me to slow down a bit. I plan to do so by creating a site named
Azedia.com which I hope will help some folks who also wind up involved with a BPD.. and simulatneously open them up to the idea of spiritual growth as a method of recovery from that experience. Kinda like A Road Less Traveled does for a lot of folks. Even if somebody doesn't really agree with Peck, that book gets a lot of folks at least started on the idea of spiritual growth - and asking some of the even deeper questions that are covered here on Mind Brain.
Oh yea - and I also need to update Spider-Food. But as you can imagine, that's not really the site where my heart lies at the moment. Right now I'm intrested mainly in Azedia.
Anyway, Shawn. - as I said, it's hard for me to give a short answer to things. lol Perhaps now you'll trust me on that.. But I promise, I am workin' on it.
I will tell ya this though, Man. Even do it right out here on the boards so you can get the full compliment. I think Mind Brain is one of the best sites and forums I've seen on the web. Also, a home run for me would be for folks to spend some time at my site - get interested in some of these deeper questions - and ultimately make their way to Mind Brain after they've outgrown Azedia.
In saying that I don't mean to suggest I'm gonna 'preach' from Azedia though. lol.. No No no.. Ask anyone who knows me and they'll tell ya I hate that. Even when I do it myself. But for me that would be a home run, because as a Bodhisattva, I really get a kick outta helping folks 'wake up.' And I'm aware that a lot of the subjects discussed here will help folks do just that- in whatever form 'waking up' is right for them.
So, anyway man - just keep on rockin. Thanks also for making Mind Brain avaliable. There's some really good stuff in here. The forums read as well as some of the better books I own. And if you ever get interested in Windows hosting, just let me know. I'm sure we can work something out. I have way more room and bandwidth than I'll ever use. It's possible that we may be able to help each other then.
Although I am a developer I'm willing to bet you know more than servers than I do. And since mine is colocated I'm really on my own in that area. I was partnered with Dan Short on that
http://web-shorts.com/bio.htm , .. A very loose friendship arrangement. I helped him with SEO and he helped me with my server issues (usually just small questions)... But I'm trying to free msyelf from calling on him whenever there is a server issue. His career has just grown too large, I feel, for me to bother him with that. And I don't want to feel like I'm taking advantage of our friendship. He is still, however, there if all goes to hell. Which so far, thankg gosh, that has not happened.
Oh.. p.s.. And one more thing...
As per my avatar, thanks. That's actually the first in a series of em. After a while he starts to wake up.. I animated him...
He comes from here though.
http://www.alexgrey.com/Cheers!