This is thing last summer i dated this girl and i met her best friend after she cheated on me her best friend and all her other freinds got sick and tired of her and ditched her.

Any way its been like a year and now she is my best friend we like everything and both of us feel the same about things and can talk to or joke around with each other. Latly shes helped me out with some girl issuses and problems and now i feel myself attracted to her. Heres the problem her friend and her like this one guy. her friend hangs all over him but he "Says" he likes my friend more but yet he DOES nothing about it. iuts been 2 weeks and still has done nothign to help her. i do indeed like her but i want to be a good friend and just give her the best of luck. but see i think he is just treating her as a back up girl incase he gets into a fight with teh other one cus he goes to her houes every day and they do "Stuff" i don't think my friend wants to believe this. Im afraid if i intervine i will seem concede and just saying that cus i want her for myself. i think it would be the best for her or am i jsut jealous?

Any advice at all...

Okay do i have to say im gonna cut myself to get some help?

ok first of all, dont never say your going to cut yourself, becasue thats not funny, and some people are sensitive to that stuff. second yes peoiple will help you but it ussualy takes time iight?

Maybe the guy is just like really shy, bcuz i know that has happened to me before, i dont know much about guys and gurls bcuz i have had only one boyfend, BUT that might be the case.
Also if you think there really is logic to the fact that he is using her as a back up ply gurl watever i think you should tell her. yes the gurls first reaction would be to get mad but once you gave her reasons and talked to her. she would understand. at least i know i would. let me know if i helped you at all.
Roze