chrissy i agree with you about what us women really want. we need all that good stuff. love, commitment, honesty and the romance but guess what you either get one or the other. you have a man that will be honest but won't commit. or he loves you but is a compulsive liar!!! you can neva get the WHOLE package. cause i've been lookin but haven't found yet. My guy loves me, is honest, and very committed. but talk about a lack of romance. >:(
but anyways, one thing you did leave out that women REALLY WANT is good sex. i'm talking about a guy that actually cares about what you want and how you want it. a guy that ask questions about what his girl likes and not just assuming they KNOW how to get her off. i don't know if guys are just afraid to ask "baby how can i please you?" or if they just enjoy being selfish. GUYS> you should know how to touch your girl and how not to touch her. if you don't know your girl's SPOT then your selfish >:(

Haven't been in on this convo but just wanted to add..

I hear ya roaring, Ms. Jackson. ;D lol

For the guys who are not selfish, however, I'm reminded of an old Sam Kenneson quote.

Ladies, if there is anything that turns you on.
If there is anything that makes you really hot.
Ladies, if there is anything in the world you want.
For heaven's sake, - TELL US!!!! WE'LL DO IT!!!


lol

ok ok i will admit ther are most guys hav that problem....gurls will hav lots of trouble findin a guy like that....but i am proof that can show u ladies that ther is a guy out ther who has the whole package....if u dont believe me thats ok it wont bother me...but me and my girlfriend hav been goin out for 6 months so far and i hav never once lied, i am always romantic and sweet wit her ANY chance i get 2 b....and most ppl hate this bout me but i am a VERY loyal guy i want my friends 2 treat me they way i treat them. it dont happen all the time but i can get over it and this gurl i love soooooo much its beyound belief cuz none of my other girlfriends has ever treated me the way she has

People talk of perfection.

der aint no such thing.
and anyway, you can only realise what perfection might be by witnessing imperfection!

I still say committment is more important than perfection.
Committment overcomes our imperfections, whether are male or female.
Best regards, Bill.

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Men aren't morons, they can be taught to express love in romantic ways, you know. The most clueless man on the planet will happily bring home flowers and light candles if he knows just how "grateful" you will be. Of course, the first step is to clearly communicate to him what your vision of romantic is, then give him an opportunity to do it, then express your gratitude. I guarantee results ;-)