my mom always takes my brothers side no matter what. anything that we both do or jsut i do or he does, its always me. i mean i asked for this gurl to stay the nuight with me and she said no, when my brotehr asked ehr if she could stay, my mom said yes. how does tah look???? seriously she lvoes him more than me.. how can i make her not!? ROoze*[glow=red,2,300]TEXT[/glow][s][/s]

Why don't you try talking to her? My dad did this with me and my sister all the time because my sister was older but so immature. So I  sat down and talked to him, I might have gotten in trouble a couple times but then he realized what he was doing. Just sit your mom down tell her you two have to have a talk and then tell her when you're speaking not to talk. That's what I had to do with my dad. So that's just a suggestion.

~Manda~

thanx!!! i treid taht once,, and she just "Jokes" (ha right) and says yea your right, tommy is my favortie, i love him more.. she eitehr desont care, or doesnt see how mmuch it hurts me.. she tells me she wants to help but then she jus goes and bes dumb.. grrr lol i hate it!!! thank you though!!!!!  if it was anyone it would have helped but.. its my mom ROoze*

Thats what my dad did too
see he knows I cry when I get mad so when I started crying he realized it
what I did when I got mad at my da was write a poem and just put it where he could see it but I acted like it wasnt intensional and went to my room and he read it and realized what was wrong with me

[glow=red,2,300]well see.. i hate to cry.. i cry when im mad or sad. but i never do it in front of people....and if i ever did it in front of my mom.. i would die lol.. i mean.. and i cant show her any of my poems becasue she tells me to write better and happy stuff... so she gets mad... grr ROoze*[move]thank you though[/move][/glow][i][/i]

Roze,

I understand how upsetting it is to have a parent who does not love you as equally as a sibling. Your mom may not even be aware of the fact that she is indeed treating you different from your brother.

I will make a suggestion here, but it may seem like a lot of work! Can you make a list, maybe of a weeks worth of interactions between you , your mother and brother. Write down every time that you feel your mother favoring your brother. ALSO , write down when your mother makes you feel good. This way, when you go tell your mother how you feel she treats you and your brother unequally, you can have doccumentation to back you up. SHe may be unaware of all that is going on. I think she might take you meor seriously too. OR maybe she would rip it up and tell yo to go away, I dont know! Just a suggestion here. If you chose to do it, please let me know how things turn out, ok?

Love. Dara

thats a good idea.. and i will try it... only i know ehenver i bring up stuff from the list.. she will say.. its from the ast things change lol thank you tho ROoze*

Dara you have the best ideas  ;D  thats why I wanted you to be moderator

[glow=red,2,300]HEY thank you sooo much... and dara you really are a smart person and i thank you sooo much for trying to help me! ROoze*[/glow]

[glow=red,2,300]TEXT[/glow][b][/b][flash=200,200]URL[/flash][color=Blue][/color]Hi! Maybe your mom doesn't realize that she favors your brother over you. Do you get in more trouble than he does normally? Like at school or by other people? Maybe thats why she gives him more oppurtunities to do things like having "girls"? stay the night. Just talk to her. Tell her you're really very truly honestly totally serious and maybe she'll listen...maybe ask your grandparents if they see the same things you do.

i asked my g-ma and g-pma and they jus say im being stupid over nothing and i should complain becasue i have awonderufl life... ha bull shit.. at school.. i do get into trouble but i only do taht becasue ya know.. i wasnt people tonotice me and the only way i can "get" "frends" is getting noticed by getting in trouble.. yea taht wiould be why tho.. thanx ROoze*

You really don't need to get in trouble to be noticed. Your friends like you for who you are. Whenever you talk about killing yourself or when you write one of those stories, after you leavethey always talk about how sad they would be if you killed yourself!!! They always say how much they would miss you and we're all practically in tears. You don't need to be in trouble to be noticed. Just act like you always do. be happy! 8)

ok question lol.. who is this??? carmen who?? lol i mean sorry.. i mean... yea.. grr thanx.. ROoze*

ack soryr i forgot to log on.. its me lol. roze vessey.. but i do want to know who you are.. ya knoe?? ROoze*

Roze-
Just try talkin to your mom k? I know she loves you cuz whenever I ask her about you or somethin she always talks about how smart you are and stuff....but part of the reason I think she favors your bro is-you know how you said you get in trouble so that you'll get attention? Well if you're a trouble-maker you won't get as many privilages (I can't spell). Just talk to her please.
Love ya-
~*~Me~*~ :-*

dude.. ok ill talk to her.. but who is this?? lol do i know you??? ack im confused!!!!! ROoze*

well haha sorry it took me so long to get back to you but i didnt realy have alot of time to talk to my mom and stuff and i didnt really wanna keep bringing up old shit but.. well i taled to her and she stil says she sint but i swear to god she is.. i mena you can ask cory and alot of people and they all say that people may think that she favors me but actually she does atc like she lvoes tommy more well way more than me.. and it bugs the hell ouita me.. bcuz i mean just yesterday she said i couldt have cory over and we are together we are actualy quiet and we go over to kristi's house and we're good bbut he couldn come over bcuz it was a sunday well my brotehr endud up with six or seven people over.. ACKLACKACKACK i hate it i mean jeez she was all i didnt know they wre over.how the fuck could she not?!?! ack lol sorry im having a bad day.. but people like my hair!!R!