ok look my friend Megan Debored just sent my somthing in the online mail telling me that i`m annoying and not to talk to her or bother her or anything   So what should i do i tell her stuff i don`t tell many people and then she blows me of and i`m sssssooooooooo depressed   i don`t even think she knew how i would feel and i don`t know what to do so please help me i`m haveing a lot of trouble with everything and i want to die so please write or somthin



The Black Cat

I know you are hurt and angry now, but please just take a moment to consider the situation from the perspective of an outsider.  You confided in Megan, and trusted her with your secrets.  That's what confiding means, having confidence in someone, trusting them with something important.  And she betrayed you, you feel, telling you that you are annoying and she doesn't want to communicate with you anymore.  You didn't do anything wrong here, you are blameless; therefore, you should know that your position is much better than Megan's.  You confided, she betrayed.  Why did she do this?  Either she was unworthy of your confidence in the first place, in which case this is a lesson hard won, or--and this is much more likely--it is merely a passing emotional state on Megan's part, and she'll feel quite differently tomorrow, if she doesn't already.  We all have our ups and downs, and she may well be having a down.  If it's not merely this simple, then, as I say, you have learned not to trust her again; it is, as I said, a lesson hard won, but that's how life-lessons are.  Unfortunately not everyone can be trusted to help us bear our burdens and share our secrets; and then there are merely those times when otherwise trustworthy people just aren't in the mood at the time.  True, if they were better friends their trustworthiness shouldn't be so dependent on their whim, but true and constant friends are hard to find; it takes commitment, and that is rare and precious.  You have Kaysie, The Raven, as your best friend.  I think I can say with every confidence that she would never hurt you as Megan has hurt you.  That's something to be happy about!

ok dont do anything over a friend please!!!!! i know how you feel i really do ... please please.. dont do anything.. just think please.. you have other friends right? is she like your best frend? maybe the things that you tell her she is scared about .. and if it was email are you ablsutly sure it was her not sum b!tch  just sayinf sumthing?? im so sorry.. im not good at this at all! i try.. lol i do.. bcuz i just went through something like this with my friend and the only thing i could do was cry.. let it out seriously.. most ppl dont liek to cry but its the best thing to do seriously!! i have to see my "frend" everyday.. i have school with her.. she told me to kil myself bcuz no one would care. . but speacially since i have came to this site i have fouind out that ppl really would care.. please dont ever do aNYTTHING!! please dont.. i would care even tho i dont know you bcuz i know how you feel and i would hate it. i would hunt down ur frend and have a "talk "with her lol but yea sorry. keep me posted please?? ill try ot help i really will !!! love you Roze

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James

Aw, sweetie, you deserve to make some better friends.

Is Megan truly your "friend"?  Is she usually supportive, kind, and worthy of your relationship, or does she frequently treat you badly?  Everyone has ugly moments -- moods or situations that can result in unfortunate words and actions.  We can forgive a bad thing if it comes from a good, and sincerely regretful, person.  Does Megan fit that criterion?

Remember...friends are the family we get to choose.  Your friends should bring good things into your life.  Friends are people who can be trusted, and they don't harm, abuse, or neglect one another.

hey you guys and girls thanks but you peeps did talk me out of it and my friends at school did to thank you all and god bless