OK have you all read the Can you believe this guy in like The YM Magazines or is it Seventeen??? well I know we have alot of teens here at the site so I was thinking that we could put something similar here in the relationships forum!  ;D
we could entitled it "the pricks vs the real men" ;D LOL well maybe not but I thought it would be something we could all enjoy and talk about that perfect guy who would do anything in the world for you vs. The dudes who would break your heart in a second! It would be nice to hear stories about experiences some of us had and how some people can treat us really nice where as others well you know! LOL There are always two sides to a coin so let's start posting!!

Love always,
Chrissy (Angelita,  Lips,Pistachio and Weirdo :-/)

haha i aint had no one do anything good or really bad so i dont have a story but i think taht is a great idea!! ROoZE*

Thats a great idea. I have been with my man for 5 years and he is a perfect example of a real man, compare to my ex-bf. Some men just care about what can they get out in a women rather than what can they give. maybe is their ego taking over them, but then again woman mature faster than men. Like women are looking for a long lasting relationships as for men, they look how can they get some and go to the next. >:(

Super idea! For me it is like this: I started to have happy relationships once I stopped to really care about relationships, once I realised (after alot of heartbreak and outch) that I would be perfectly fine on my own.

Female misery (feeling that you are worthless and nothing without a man) attrackts male misery (violence, unability to express feelings). Break the circle, take care of yourself, respect yourself speak out for yourself. Men will not treat you nice because you treat THEM nice. Although that´s nice too.
Men will treat you nice when you treat yourself nice. Be a princess and really mean it.
LOVE
Piratjenny

Seek the friend in the person you're interested in, better yet- his personality, comparing compatibility... search for a connection there...
Do not attempt to seek the ideal perfect guy...

I would actually find that boring.
If you don't let yourself get hurt, it is an amusement park I tell you!

Help them out, show how brilliant you are..
Embrace their 'difficulty'.. and all their thoughts, don't think 'right or wrong' here. If they won't accept your intelligence and logic sense, Which is true females, we think logically... (ehem) then that's their fault.
Although it is said...

Girls are crazy
Boys are stupid

-So do share everything you feel or think with this guy. If they can't handle it, then they're not really paying attention to you, because they feel the need to cling to their own beliefs or thoughts.

And won't embrace what you are thinking. (as in feeling)
-Which is the cause of the conflict.

Be openhearted. That is you. If they don't like it-
Tough!

But anyway,
Pirat Jenny is correct in her observation.
Confidence is attractive...
And try to get something that will back it up  

Be independent.
Find a friend.
And if you can, approach him in a brotherly attitude.... if something developes...

well,

COR- Blimey!

If nothing does, you'll still have a friend. I have friends that I sort of had a 'thing' with, we're VERY different, but we still connect because we are    f r i e n d s.

Friends last a life-time.
They're something to cling to.

Ideals, an 'ideal guy' is boring.  
They don't exist, perhaps in your mind.

I'm not saying we can't think in Metaphors.  

Fran, if I was your sister or mum or aunt I would be soooo proud of you! You girls are amazing! Much love, PJ

And yes, an "ideal guy" is the most boring thing in the world - once you have him. Till then he is veeeeeery interesting....
What is important for me:
having the same sense of humor
liking the way a man smells
being able to talk about sex
sharing love for animals (men who hate animals are bad news)
respect
interest
true friendship, all the time
love, once in a while

Thanks Piratjenny  ;D

What is important to me:

The biggies:

Honesty
Respect
Consideration-Understanding
Loyalty

Pepper:

Playfulness/Puppy behaviour (Yes I fall for that)
Intelligence, nimble wit (I'm a sucker for that one too)

and the taste for adventure  

Won't have any boredom under my roof!

Oh Goodnesss, Fran, I forgot about the PEPPER, the chilli, the tobasco.... Getting old  ;D
LOVE, Piratjenny