Hey. I really like this guy but he has a girlfriend and he keeps telling me that if he didn't have a girlfriend that he would go out w/ me and he flirts ALOT. the other day he kissed me...not like on the mouth or anything but it was for no reason at all and I was really surprised. I don't want them to break up or anything but I really like him and he is really confusing me. What should I do?

Ann

do they really like each outher and do you no the girl hes going out with? is she your friend or your fooe

I don't knowif they like each other ALOT because I'm not around that much when there together cuz they dont' hang out that much. I know his girlfriend and I don't really like her but I wouldn't really say she's a foe but she's not a friend either lol.
Ann

well check up on them once in a wile at skool and see if they really like each other if you notice any sence of them sort of not likeing kind of thing just stell him away that moment

I don't wanna "steal him away". Actually I don't know what I want I just really like him.

ANN FREKEIN COMLMEN! (COLEMAN) HOW DARE YOU NOT TELL ME THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ANN i told yo he liked you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ann dont worry about it, plrease, he lieks you, he happy lol someone likes you!!! ;D;D (im not surprised or anything) when i see him and his gf together they dont look like they belong, she is like, wel ok she could be lez she is so guyish and ... well.. kinda rude, but he is like.. nice.. lol a pothead but nice.. and i dont think tehy will last very long, and if he kissed you!(which icant belive you didnt tell me aobut) if he kissed you, he dont care about her too much. ROze

Roze I didn't tell you cuz I didn't want ANYBODY to know...it would just be to weird w/ him having a girlfriend and all. and yes she is guyish and rude and he is totally sweet and all but obviously he likes her if he's going out w/ her and what about those poems he wrote about her on that website? and why are you not surprised that somebody likes me? (Even though he doesn't). I'd be surprised if somebody liked me. well i have to go i don't feel good. cya tomorrow.

I LOVE YOU MORE! lol
Ann

ann who cares if anyone knows, wel ok you do lol but! she is guyish but im trying to be nice lo. anthose poems WERE NOT about her!!!!!!!!!!!!! maybe they were about you!!!!!!! never know lol and HE DOES like you and im not surprised bcuz i ithnk ur beufilful (not like im lez) and SHE LIKES YOUUUUUU
I LOVE YOU MORE!!!! ROze

He's probably just sayin he likes me so that i won't feel like a total freak and what do you mean "SHE LIKES YOU"?  And I highly doubt anybody in their right mind would write a poem about me!!!
I LOVE YOU MOST!

Ann

lol i menat HE and a couse he aint in his right mind he was pry high when he rote it!@ lol but yes HE l(lol) likes you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! he asid so!!!!! and i said so!!!!!! and he lieks you! i lvove you more!!!!!!!!! ROze

I really like him! But even if he does like me the probably won't break up forever and even if they do just cuz he said he'd be hittin on me doesn't mean that he'd actually go out w/ me! :'(
I love you too roze!!!!!!
Ann

he would go out wit you Ann;D trust me, and i oculd get himto too, and trust me too they will break up oon they areSO not meant for each other i mean have you watched them together? they dont go to gether and she dont relaly lke him all that mich bcuz i heard her talk.. dont worry.. he LIKES YOU.. he LIKES YOui and i love you Roze i love you MORE

I'm confused! I don't know what to think! Should I just forget that I like him? Should I just detach myself from him like I do everything else? Help!

Grr...You all know Roze right? lol who doesn't ;D Well she is also friends w/ this guy I like and she said he is saying all this stuff about how much he likes me and stuff...Even if he ever does break up w/ his girlfriend and wanted to go out w/  me now I don't know if I'd wanna go out w/ him. ??? Cuz I mean...Do you guys think he would be like all over other girls and stuff?? Roze doesn't think he would and I HOPE he wouldn't but grr...I'm gonna go nuts. I'm really sorry to bother you guys w/ these stupid problems especially when there are *LOTS* of other people here with real problems. If you wanna give me some advice I'd really appreciate it but if you don't I understand. Thanks
Ann

well annn lol of course peple are going to answer this and it is a real problem! ann.. the only reason i dont think he would flirt wit other gurls WHEN you guyz go out is that he only talks about you, not his gf (to me taht is) and he only talks about you... its ALKL about you.. ROze

You're funny Roze and I hope its true. But I still don't think you could consider this a "real" problem lol. Well I better go I have to go to town :-/ See ya later.
Ann

yes ann lol it Is a reallllllllll problem!!!!!! and (hey you sohuld come over otnight when you get back form town) but yes! he likes you! and all h talks about is.. you.. seirouls.. ROze

Roze...I wish I went to prom! :'( I think he is there but oh well her is probably w/ her. I hope he likes me..I think?! Well gtg. Bye Bye
Ann

he does he does he does ( im singing that ) and he i dont tihnk he went.. at least when i asked he said no he wastnt goning but he mite have changed his mind... im so GLAD i didnt go to prom.. can you belive i still remember the first time robby asked me to dance? at a dance in jr high? llol love you most ann ROze

It's kinda hard to forget the first person that somebody you like(d) asked you to dance! Remember Sean that I used to always talk about? I still remember the first time he asked me to dance in 5th grade at a party and his girlfriend got pissed. :'( lol. and know what? i hope he does i hope he does i hope he does (i'm singing that) lol. Well I'm gonna go....I think I'm gonna go back to bed before I have to start cooking lunch/dinner. See ya later.
Ann
P.S. I love YOU most! lol

aw ann he lieks you.. really trust me i swear and next time ill send you our convo ok? so you know wat happened and stuff iight?? yea i member you tlaing about sean all the time haha .. yea i geuss it is kidna hard, bcvuz he was all so roze how does it feel to be dancing ith the hottest guy in tyhe school.. lol aw Roze

Robby is goofy..but then again so are you...you two would make a cute couple! ;D I can see it now.."Mrs. Roze Latara Baker" lol. I like Alex soooo much! gtg
Ann

lol haha thanx!! hehe yea i htink so too:) lol i wihs.. but.. i know you like alex! and i KNOW HE LIKES YOU TOO!!! hehehehehhehhehehehhhehheheh (im not mad bcuz you keep tlaing about it swear to god i dont care, i like it it makes ME feel important) lol but yea.. geuss who might to comong to MY hosue ROze

Guess what?! I don't care about Alex any more! I'm so happy. Whenever I thought about him before I was like all depressed cuz he had a girlfriend and all but I don't care anymore..I like someone else that I have liked since september!

ooh ooh ooh ANNN who is it?!?!?!!?!

you don't know him...his name is Shamus

uh hu.. wher he lives?

he's from C-town...but I don't think he notices me :-/

you tweeker he does!!!! lol andd i will make sure of it!!!!!! ROze

how will you make sure of it? you don't even know him and guess what I found out last night...he too has a girlfriend! :'( :-X How do I always pick the guys with girlfriends?!?!?!?!?! ???

oh.. well i will get to know him. and i dotn know why you alwasy pick guys wit gf's!!! maybe they will break upi and he will like you. bcz you have to start wit a FRENDSHIP firts anyhow ROze

:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( ggggggggggrrrrrrrrrrrr! I still like Alex...it drives me nuts cuz I don't wanna like him and he is a stoner and a liar and all that but i still like him...I know why I like him but I shouldn't >:(

well damnit its normal ann.. i still lie josh.. my ex. ya know? and you willlll until you totally and absoulty find someone new.. and maybe not even then.. my mom still hopes my dad will come back to her.. it happans.. Roze

But grrr....There are so many reasons I don't like him but there are like a million more reasons why I do but he has a girlfriend so it doesn't matter and he don't like me anyway....he won't even talk to me any more and I haven't done anything :-/

maybe hes nervous, or embarased. and no matter how many reason you think up to hate someone ( i ahve done taht wit Jason) you will always like them in the end..

But Roze...He has lied to me..he's a stoner...he has a girlfriend...he won't talk to me...he is a stoner

:'( :'( :'( :'( :-X :-X :-X :-X :-[ :-[ :-[ :-[ ??? ??? ??? ??? >:( >:( >:( >:(

ya i know.. i stil liek guys who used me, lied to me, lied to eveyrone, told people i was a lier, told me he used me, totally dissed me, and not ignores me, i still like him... it is someinthg in you that makes you like them.. you ALWAYS feeeeel someinthg for that persoin

But I don't want to! But its weird cuz he's just that kind of person that no matter how mad I am at him or home much I don't want to like him...he's totally sweet and he has one of those faces...I don't know but whenever I look at him I just can't be mad.

ooohhh i know!!! no matter how much you wannna hate someone youkinda gottta like me.. he is like that.. like a lil kid cept for the stoning and stuff.. lol i know how you feeel babe.. Roze

I'm gonna go nuts.

lol no ur not if anyone will  it'll be ME first!!!!! Roze

Well ok roze...I like...really really really really (times a million) like Shamus But he has a girlfriend :'( but I like alex but he has a gf to...gggggggggrrrrrrrrrr :'( :'( :'( :'( I swear I need that depression medicne..that starts w/ a "P" but I forget the name..Prozac? I think thats it.

omg ann prozac is like not a depresion medicine.. i think lol oh well but i knowyou do... lolnot ned the medicine buti know ur sad.. and stuff.. but eventually they'll break upi and know im always ehre for you

If he don't talk to me today.....I'm giving up..I really am..I'm never talking to him again anyways so it doesn't really matter.

oh he WILL talk to you.... and im not talking to him anymore bcuz he got stoned this mrning! ROze

I doubt he will talk to me..and you better not tell him to talk to me cuz then i will be royally pissed. He never talks to me any more all he said to me today is "what?" cuz I was walking down the hall and he came up behind me and started shaking me and I was like "ALEX" and he was just like "what?"

well he said someinthg AND i wont tell him bcuz im NOt talkking to him!!!

me either

riiiggghhtttt lol but i will make sure you don't

I LIKE HIM I LIKE HIM I LIKE HIM I LIKE HIM I LIKE HIM I LIKE HIM I LIKE HIM GRRRRRRRRR