Help - Search - Members - Calendar
Full Version: i dont know...
BrainMeta.com Forum > Literature & Art > Miscellany > Personal Relationships
angelroze
i dont KNOW if this would be the palce to put this. but its kind of about love, and its kind of about trust, and its kind of about my dad.. so lol i aint sure but i put it  here.
ever since my dad left me, i have been like ya know trustless, like i dont trust NOBODY! and then i trusted josh and he left me and ronda and she well lol left me and i trusted all these peoplein my school and they ALL told everything i ever told them. and then at school i trusted Jason ya know and i talked to him and he like WONT talk to me anymore and im all liek watver ya know like Seriosuly hurt, and now,,, i relaly wanna trust robby, i really do.. bcuz i really like him.. kind of how i felt about JAson but i nkow i cant have jason bcuz he wot even tlak to me but robby will... i dont know twa to do.. and i dont    how to trust.. how cna i? ROze
pariah
You should trust your gut instinct because it is usually always right. wink.gif
uhhhhhhdj
yeah, i don't know either.  i was going to start on this yappity yap about how when you're in high school, everyone is so self conscious, so insecure, so messed up because of their own personal bullsh*t.  you're kind of in this stage where you're really JUST learning about morals (like not just rules themselves, but you're starting to FEEL the abstractness of moral behavior).  some people (your people that "betray" you) may not be able to comprehend yet that they are hurting you, or what it means when they have hurt you (even someone who is an "adult" such as your dad).  unfortunately there is no answer about "whom" to trust, you kind of have to take your lumps and bumps, learn the traits of those who betray you as opposed to those who make good friends/companions/lovers/family.  i'm 26, and i think i STILL make kinda bad judgement calls.  just remember, that no matter WHO screws up, YOU are worthy of being loved and cherished, even if you don't judge correctly or if you make a mistake yourself.  

umm....also, i am going to be a dork and mention my favorite book "the road less traveled" by m. scott peck.  it helped me a lot through a rough time when i was surrounded by deceit and anger.  it talks a lot about love and personal growth.  ok, la, good luck!
angelroze
thankx ya all and.. yea that i had heard about that book and i heard it was good too ROzxe
This is a "lo-fi" version of our main content. To view the full version with more information, formatting and images, please click here.


Home     |     About     |    Research     |    Forum     |    Feedback  


Copyright © BrainMeta. All rights reserved.
Terms of Use  |  Last Modified Tue Jan 17 2006 12:39 am