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EyeKandi
ok i just thought id post this... there are 3 types of sex each a different name each a different thing... im tired of people being confused...
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  • Fucking : when 2 people are horny and just feel like (sad to use the term) "getting it on"... no emotion exchange is present... its just a fling
  • Sex : yes the one used way too often to mean all three... this normally has some exchange of emotions... and there is a feel of attraction, also to have sex normally means an attachment has been made....
  • Making Love : Its a life time commitment... its its the physical expression of you love.... to be used wisely.... Extreme emotions....


Ok so theres the list tell me if you diagree, or agree... but like i said im tired of hear the wrong ones used...

Take Care,
Anne
lover_with_wingz
hmmmmm..good deal Anne! Just a question di I offend you but using the wrong terms about sex! If I did I am sorry ??? anyways thank you for posting! I agrre with your list and how you explained each one!

Love always,
Chrissy
EyeKandi
no its people at my school and stuff...

Glad you liked it

Take Care,
Anne
Lori_F.
I agree that the term, "making love", should be reserved for the highest form of the physical act -- an exchange of minds, souls, and hearts.  When partners truly make love, they're as close as two people can possibly be.
angelroze
yes i agree with you.  and i do gt tired of people saying taht stupid shit ya know?? ui mean i would lvoe to "make love" but all ill pry get is a good fuck lol but yea. i ean jeeeez i hate it when people say shit they dont unserdstand ya no??ROoze*
Hi-top
um  ok
thanks for showing this
now i dont have to take sex ed next year
EyeKandi
lol Hi- top... i think your still stuck with taking it! :-*
pariah
I think sex can be perceived in many different ways.

Personally I think sex is a VERY special moment between two people and should never be shrugged off
as just a one night stand type thing.

that's just how I feel about the whole thing.
;D
uhhhhhhdj
i think the description is pretty good... BUT... i think there's more room for discussion:

For example, (and please, if i get too crude and disgusting, i DO apologise), let's say you're in a monogomous committed relationship, and you LOVE the person, is it not possible to fuck?  like if my significant other (had i one) was in love with me, and he bent me over the kitchen sink as i was doing the dishes and did me really hard from behind, i would definitely say he was fucking me.  

on the other hand, i did have a recent encounter with someone whom i'm not particularly involved with, and don't feel any emotional attachment to.  i would DEFINITELY not say he fucked me.  i wouldn't QUITE say he made LOVE to me, although he was very gentle, and sweet, and paid attention to my "needs", let's just say.  NOW... is that sex?  or is that just fucking?  

and where does screwing fit in?  is that somewhere between sex and fucking??  well...just some food for thought...
Bone head
Oh Baby.......
Fucking is relative. You fall in love and everything is bliss and you make love till you swell up.
Later you have sex and finally you fuck when the honeymoon is over.
I mean lets get real here. You plan for the ultimate forever and it turns into divorce. Do you hold back because you think it may end? No. You have no idea what the future is going to hold.
Passion comes in waves from primal to emotional and why hold back or make distinctions?
Don't feel free to express unless it is socially acceptable and grouped into standards?
Give me a break. I could love a woman and do her over the sink while she is doing the dishes and also suck on her toes until she comes with all the commitment to the passion that fills the moment.( Providing she has taken her sneakers of first)
Why oh why make life so complicated by categorizing it?
Would you ask your partner when you are feeling romantic,"Hey how do you feel about me right now? Like fucking, having sex or making love?"
I'm sure you will know what is happening unless you are so desperate that you are willing to compromise yourself due to some really low self worth standards. Then you may fall for anything. Some guy or girl could use and abuse you with meaningless words that you would fall for just because you want to hear them.

What were we talking about anyway?
Oh yeah Fucking.
Bone head
Oh by the way Pariah,
Noble decision. Sex is something you do when you want to and not when you are pressured into it.
Never compromise yourself in anything you do.
Huyana
LMAO Bone head.  I so agree.  Whatever it is called, I can handle it.  If you prefer to make it called something else because of who you are doing it with, that's kinda like making the idea more comfortable for your own mind to handle.  

So let's say, "Hey, I wanna go fuck him because he's hot."  you're saying that because you don't know him, but you would bone him anyway.  

It's all the same in my world.  If you do love them, then it's just damn good sex.
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