ok from a woman's prespective Here is what I feel we need want and desire


Companionship: someone to share our thoughts dreams and desires with someone we can share Anything and I do mean anything with!

Love: we need it we crave it we want it!

Honesty: if you don't like the shirt we are wearing please tell us
just don't tell me about how my hair looks like crap in the morning when I first wake up because at this point in my day i really could care less

Committment: someone who is willing ot be by our side forever through the good and the bad. Forever and ever
someone who is willing to be just with us because we are sticklers when it comes to sharing!


Respect: goes with common courteous and decency Love us and respect us if we say no smoking around us or whatever plz! not that we are superior (some of us may disagree on that one! lol) but we just want to be treated with dignity respect and equality by the men we love

hmmmmm.. anything else

ROMANCE I think it died or something open the doors for us give us back rubs make us dinner bring us flowers
just say I love you because kiss us caress us make us feel wanted safe and secure!!!!

instead of us waiting on you

honey go get me a beer
hand me the remote
or where's my dinner
cuz most likely we will respond with

get off your lazy ass and get your own damn beer

or get off your ass and find the remote yourself like i want to spend my afternoon watching football!

as for where is your Dinner.....well where is ours.....

hahah more to come


Love always,
Chrissy

Bravo, Chrissy! Bravo!!

By the way, I love to cook!

James

WOMEN!..... or maybe thats just me lol... i totaly agree yay!...

Take Care,
Anne

Some women want women, some want men, some want BOTH, some want neither...HMMM, interesting I tell you.

OK, here is a bit about me, I am really putting myself out on a limb here, but HELL, here goes...

I am married to a wonderful man, and i love him very much, but I am also strangely attracted to SOME women. ODD? I think not! I dont think I would ever "date" a woman, but there are more instances where I think, WOW, look at HER, then I think, WOW, look at HIM...
Am I alone here in my feelings? It's ok if I am, we are all entitled to our feelings and beliefs!

I must tell you though, the girl would have to be an absolute ana goddess for me to think that!

WOW, I cant believe I am posting this... :

Love, Dara

Aww dara ! :::LOVE:::

Dara I don't think you are alone in your views Thank you so much for being honest and posting your views You are so loved here by me of course and so many others! I aprreciate your prespective on things!


Love always,
Angelita
Chrissy

i TOTALLY agree!!!! especially to the honesty and love and companionship. the honestys a biggie for me...looooooong story...anyway good ones
love always
britt

QUOTE

ROMANCE I think it died or something open the doors for us give us back rubs make us dinner bring us flowers just say I love you because kiss us caress us make us feel wanted safe and secure!!!! instead of us waiting on you honey go get me a beer hand me the remote or where's my dinner cuz most likely we will respond with get off your lazy ass and get your own damn beer or get off your ass and find the remote yourself like i want to spend my afternoon watching football! as for where is your Dinner.....well where is ours.....

I think it should work both ways... If your man is going to give you backrubs, then why shouldn't you fetch him a beer every once in a while... If you are looking for a love slave, then good luck. If you are looking for someone for companionship and love, sorry, but you're going to have to go get that beer out of the fridge every once in a while.

Dara
You are a woman of modern made society. You most likely grew up with the society belief that beautiful women are all over the TV. It has been studied that since the 80's of using sex to sell that a lot of women look at women in some fashion that men look at women do. Like most women; you will never do more then look and comment about it.
It is not a bad thing, it is actually a great thing because it means you are very comfortable with your self in several different ways.
gdguy

I have different views and some the same. I believe in respect and honesty over all! I love to be in love and to have the love returned.
But as a woman I believe it should go both ways. I love to cook and clean and do things for my boyfriend because I love and care for him and he loves me enough to do the same.
Woman ask for equality and then want to be treated as if they were more important over men.
True equality means I give in sometimes and you give in others and sometimes we compromise.
It also means I will watch the football game with you today honey and tomorrow we will go to the ballet.
But it doesn't always have to work out that way either.... I do things for my boyfriend and never expect anything in return and vica versa.

You do things for people cause you love them and thats a good enough reason for me.

As for dara your not alone....

i agree with ayana, the idea of keeping some kind of karmic accounting ledger of favours repulses me. It always pissed me off when my ex would ask me to get her a glass of water in the middle of the night when i was trying to sleep, but i'd get it every time... not because i was expecting anything in return but because i cared about her.

if you're only doing things to get a return on your investment, then you're really doing it for yourself instead of the other person