i have been with this guy for 11 months and i love him, but this summer we havent talked for 2 months. i dont know where he is or what he's doing. what should i do.. ??

Hello confused love,

Can I first of all welcome you to mind-brain?

I realise that you have been here a while and yet I have not said Hello!

You do not state your age, but I would guess that you are young: I'm 59.

I am no expert on relationships, but would like to help you if I can.
Can you relate the circumstances of the last meeting you had with your boyfriend?
Have you seen him anywhere since that meeting?
Are you infatuated with him, or do you desire to know his current feelings toward you so that you can freely move on with your life?

Please ignore this message if you feel I am going to be unable to help you; I will not be at all offended.
I am happily married and just wish everyone else could find a partner to provide the sustainance I have enjoyed.

Best regards, Bill.
PS Don't ever feel alone - there are people on this site who can and will help you through your problems, from a viewpoint of Love or understanding [or both].