I like whatever I see as a good reflection of myself in the mirror. Â Which I think as psychologists put it, is kinda the joke... Â ;D
For example, I might say that my perfect match is a spiritual = chicken adrenaline junkie = brainiac. Â And if I said that, I'd be telling the truth. Â That is her. Â But what I am really describing is "me." Â lol
Therefore, when I say "I love you" to someone, I'm really paying them a compliment. Â I'm telling that person how I feel
in relation to them. Â And there is some quality about myself that I see reflected in them.
And of course what ya always hope for, is that when you see yourself in the mirror so do they.
If both those things happen at a time when both people see themselves as being available - "lightening strikes."