Introducton:
I have discussed something yesterday with a friend and I felt offended. I then asked myself why and here's why I found. (We sorted it out by the way)
Topic:
This may help some people in the area of communication in relationships in *Taken for granted... Or *Help- he's not noticing me!! (on Both Sides)
Hypothesis: (Which you can discuss with me- I would even like you to)
We may sometimes be selfish.
We may either be God or the Center of the Universe
God will be the one believing in the even distribution of 'Love'
He is to treat everyone faily and with the same respect for different reasons. Some Gods may be unaware that they are hurting people when they lie which may truly have a great damaging impact on their lives in the end- but 'What they don't know, won't hurt them right' When they are then critisized they will then say 'I was just trying to be fair... and fight it off with something that doesn't seem logical and comprehensible to the 'Center of the Universe'.
The 'Centers of the Universes' are the ones that don't believe in the even distribution of 'Love' for different reasons. Know that you are the Center of the Universe as well for them and they might treat you as such. (and want to be treated the same)
Note: There is no 'he's right' or 'he's wrong' here. It is just an observation.
Experiment:
Note: This can be a Girl to Girl, or Boy to Boy conflict between friends as well.. but this makes it more navigational.
I know the construction of words is simple but the content of communication is really the same.
Girl: (not necessarily always the Center of the Universe)
You have been calling others that as well. No I'm not talking to you. The truth in your words is questionable.
Boy: (not necessarily always God)
What are you talking about, you mean so much to me, don't leave me.
-Remember 'Glorious and Bright- you shine in the night'
Boy to Girl 2: No you are wonderful ! Don't say that, well whatever happens.. you mean so much to me, don't cry
Remember- 'Glorious and Bright- you shine in the night' (I'm not saying he's cheating)
Boy to Girl: No you are seriously wonderful ! Don't say that !
Girl: Give me time to understand this.
Boy: Don't leave me.. I think your wonderful! Glorious and Bright - who shines in the night ;D.. Hey!! Where are you going
??Outcome:
-Boy doesn't understand and walks off finding someone who will give him love back for 'all the love he's giving the world'
-Girl doesn't understand and walks off to find someone 'unique' who will be 'unique with her.
Solution:
Someone will have to notice that something's wrong or that something can be changed. The will to change will have to overcome the will be selfish, to assert oneself or to wallow in one's pit.. etc, etc. I believe that this may be the solution to all problems.
Conclusion:
You like each other, keep it simple, there are enough problems in this world already.
Separate yourself from trivial.
This is just a Hypothesis and like I said Experiment... I would of course like to stand corrected if there are other opinions on this... Or comments that you'd like to share
I will be reading everything about Psychology that is on this site... when I think I've found some interesting insight I might share it in this forum...
Experiment and Observation
I don't know.. does this interest anyone?
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Forget yourself
Save the world
Who's with me?
I know it's not that simple but you know what I mean
The world is strange and stupid and we are all sheep wearing ribbons
I'm the one with the blue one
and you....? Â
Isn't it wonderful?