Maximus' Philosophy
Alrighty, since philosophy is by far the subject which I talk about most and get a lot of response on the forum about, I figure I will start with it. I believe that in order for a person to live a fufilling life, they need only do three things.
1. Decide what you want
Sounds easy enough doesnt it? well it isnt, most often people have great ideas about what other people want them to do. But more often than not, they are so concerned with pleasing people like their parents, colleagues ect. That they do not stop to take the time and think about what they really want, deep down in the darkest most hidden recesses of their mind. In the back of all of our minds is things we had thought about doing, that we really wanted to do but havent done or have yet to do. Those are what I call things you really want, they are not vague things like getting a new cell phone but rather deep, profound and emensly important things which have been neglected.
It took me a long time to decide what I really wanted, this is my method for divulging the true desires of the heart.
First the general then the specific.
You should not have to much difficulty deciding the general things you desire in life, happiness, health, whatever, ect. Once you have isolated the general objects of your desire, you dig deeper to find the things that will make up these general desires. In happiness, you have to find things you truely believe will make you happy, things that will truly make you so happy you will cry and laugh and smile, all at the same time. When you can think of those things, then you are getting to the specific joys in life that you really want.
2. Figure out how to get what you want.
Once you have completed the daunting task of deciding what you really want deep down inside, then you must commit yourself absolutly and unconditionally to getting what you truely want. This should be easy if you really want it, if you find it difficult to commit yourself wholey and entirely to achieving these things, then you have not yet found what you really want.
Once you have found what you really want, commiting to them is rediculously easy, soon money and status have no substance to you, your focus becomes absolute on achieving your desires. You must be 100% commited, not 99.99% - 100%, only then can you hope to get what it is you want.
Now that you have commited to these tasks, you must figure out how to get what you want, take apart it piece by piece until you know exactly how the desires can be achieved. Play it like a movie in your mind's eye, go through every step required to achieve what you want, when you reach the end of the movie and have all of your desires met, then you can begin to enjoy them. Of course, now we have to turn those thoughts into a reality, do not skip on this part, you must go through each and every step you need to take to get what you want.
When this is done then you only need to...
3. Go get what you want!
After step one and step two, you just need to figure out what the first step is to achieving your goal and do the first step, then the second step and so on.
So do I practice what I preach? well... ive been working to achieve my goals for 5 and 1/2 years now and, im almost done! I have only a few things left to do and then im done
Yes, its true, I havent found something more challenging than achieving my deepest desires, but the feeling you get when you do is unimaginable. You feel such a sensation of happiness, it is beyond description, to have worked for an uncountable amount and to finally achieve what you have put every last breath into is beyond words. Truely, there is no better feeling in the world.
So what happens when you finally achieve all of your goals? You relax, if you manage to actually do so, then you will be exhausted, and will definatly need some time to just relax.
Finally, you must have absolute faith in yourself, you must never allow doubt to enter your mind for even a single second, always must you ignore those who would put you down and say it cant be done. If you do this, then your success is certain.
Oh yea and if you wanna know what ive been working for, to bad im not going to tell you. In fact I find with everyone I talk to they either deny having such deep desires or say they dont want to tell me or anyone. Its the same thing with me, with such deep and profound things, one keeps them close to their heart and guarded at all times.
Tired from typing, will add more later, post comments or questions if you like.
