Yeah I get that, I'm just not very good at articulating myself in this area. All of our measurements are human mental constructs, not the ultimate reality. It seems that our latest theories in physics are very difficult to understand because they break most of our already-formed theories. We have no language for the areas we are now working within, and so we get the wierd description of light being both a particle and a wave.
I write code and have nothing to do with physics, so be gentle