I don't know what I want Options

[maximus242]

I think forming good habits is one of the most important things in life! Shame I realised after I formed all my bad habits and got lazy.

I agree, I never fully understood just how powerful habits were, had I known that, I would of probably accomplished six times as much already.

[YinYang]

How an hard reading for me
But at least this is what I search to improve my english.
Anyway, I know the power of good habits, I tryed it for a period of my life, but it finally become broken because the world all around us changes, and you need to change habits in harmony with it. Since taking a habit need an effort, you can win or you can fail in this activity, and I failed.
Why I failed?
The aswer that I gave to myself is that you can't only "lie" on your good habits, you need a spring of energy, and this spring of energy must be self-regenerative, because you always need to change.
The thing about which I'm talking is a spring of motivation, a "tension"(in positive way) that is suitable for every situation, something always interesting, something that you can find in every thing and situation, and because of this something infinite and inhexaustible.
Maybe I can call it the essence of love for life. A basical principle in the light of which you can interpret everything in the right way, whithout effort or with a little effort.
But maybe I should be more practical and stop dreaming

[Joesus]

The absolute is not a dream, though you can dream about it. An ongoing clear experience of it gives one a different perspective of reality, to discover what is the dream and what is real.

[code buttons]

How an hard reading for me
But at least this is what I search to improve my english.
Anyway, I know the power of good habits, I tryed it for a period of my life, but it finally become broken because the world all around us changes, and you need to change habits in harmony with it. Since taking a habit need an effort, you can win or you can fail in this activity, and I failed.
Why I failed?
The aswer that I gave to myself is that you can't only "lie" on your good habits, you need a spring of energy, and this spring of energy must be self-regenerative, because you always need to change.
The thing about which I'm talking is a spring of motivation, a "tension"(in positive way) that is suitable for every situation, something always interesting, something that you can find in every thing and situation, and because of this something infinite and inhexaustible.
Maybe I can call it the essence of love for life. A basical principle in the light of which you can interpret everything in the right way, whithout effort or with a little effort.
But maybe I should be more practical and stop dreaming

Don't stop "dreaming". You got the right idea! Motivation is a poweful tool of resolution. You're on the right path.

[Hey Hey]

Isn't it all worth it, just to be alive, to be able to listen to:

http://rapidshare.com/files/191778882/Northern_Sky.mp3

I never felt magic crazy as this
I never saw moons knew the meaning of the sea
I never held emotion in the palm of my hand
Or felt sweet breezes in the top of a tree
But now you're here
Brighten my northern sky.

I've been a long time that I'm waiting
Been a long that I'm blown
I've been a long time that I've wandered
Through the people I have known
Oh, if you would and you could
Straighten my new mind's eye.

Would you love me for my money
Would you love me for my head
Would you love me through the winter
Would you love me 'til I'm dead
Oh, if you would and you could
Come blow your horn on high.

I never felt magic crazy as this
I never saw moons knew the meaning of the sea
I never held emotion in the palm of my hand
Or felt sweet breezes in the top of a tree
But now you're here
Brighten my northern sky.

Nick Drake

[code buttons]

But you did choose to be born, and to be born here. You just don't remember those choices. Until you do, you won't know how your current choices are going to unfold.
Then without that knowledge, the mind resolves itself to the facts of being a victim to circumstance, and choice won't much matter as long as circumstance rules the universe and the Human experience.

Reincarnation I suppose? And in YinYang's lingo, please!

[Joesus]

Reincarnation I suppose? And in YinYang's lingo, please!

Reincaration yes, no remember maybe. When do eerything good!

[YinYang]

Don't stop "dreaming". You got the right idea! Motivation is a poweful tool of resolution. You're on the right path.

I'm baffled about this point.
We are just studying at school the writer Torquato Tasso, do anyone knows something about him?
If no, just say me something so that I understand that we have to continue the discussion without talking about Tasso

[trojan_libido]

I think codebuttons made it pretty clear - Make sure you have goals, dreams, an aim. Then life becomes easier.

[Joesus]

Don't stop "dreaming". You got the right idea! Motivation is a poweful tool of resolution. You're on the right path.

I'm baffled about this point.
We are just studying at school the writer Torquato Tasso, do anyone knows something about him?
If no, just say me something so that I understand that we have to continue the discussion without talking about Tasso

We don't have to continue the discussion, but what is it that you want and how can you express or know what you want without engaging (having a discussion) with what lingers inside of you to refine your desire?

[Rick]

I haven't read Tasso. Tell me about him.

[YinYang]

Well,the point at issue is that the searching of the absolute, and the searching in general, always lead you to conflict and charge. In Tasso, the heroes are fighting for christianity, but this fight make him move away from her loved women, that are muslims. But heroes also recognise the virtute of lovers, not only the virtute of warriors, and so the fight for christianity is even a fight for love, and for all the good things in general.
So, there is a contradiction: heroes fight for love, but love is opposite of fight and the subject loved is an enemy. This explains why Tancredi, a christian hero, kills her loved, that is a muslim warrior, because he don't recognize Clorinda(her loved) because of the armour that Clorinda wears. before she died, he become christan: the moral topic of the romance disappear, and this is the fundamental condition to make love act.
The main theme is the clearly the contradiction, but a contradiction of method: opposite ways to react to the need of good and love. One way is war, and the other one is love and acceptation of nature, that is seen as a condition full of pitfalls, where good is not strongly searched enough.

[code buttons]

The main theme is the clearly the contradiction, but a contradiction of method: opposite ways to react to the need of good and love. One way is war, and the other one is love and acceptation of nature, that is seen as a condition full of pitfalls, where good is not strongly searched enough.

Therein lies your problem, little grasshopper: Too much contradicition in your life!!! The school system is probably the source and agravation of your conflict. Maybe we should start solving your problem at its root.

[Joesus]

Without the absolute in awareness, love cannot be found in war.